Wedding BudgetWedding Costs..Who pays for What??
One question that usually comes up when a couple announces their engagement is, "Who will pay for the wedding?"
Traditionally, the majority of the wedding expenses are paid for by the bride and/or her family. In our more modern times, however, another approach is to divide the costs up between the bride and groom and each set of parents.
Below is a list of the traditional guidelines for wedding expenses. You may choose to adapt this list to your own personal needs and preferences.
BRIDE/BRIDE'S FAMILY: - Any needed rental items - Arrange for accommodations for out of town guests* (grooms family can also arrange this, depending on whose hometown the wedding is taking place at) - Bridesmaids wedding gifts - Ceremony Costs (Church fee, etc.) - Ceremony Decorations - Ceremony/Reception Flowers - Entertainment (DJ, Band, Harp, etc.) - Favors - Flowers (bridesmaids bouquets, all corsages, ceremony) - Gratuities/Tips for services - Grooms wedding gift - Grooms wedding ring - Guest Book - Her blood tests/medical checkup - Invitations, thank you cards, announcements, mailing expenses, etc. - Lingerie - Photographer - Printed items such as napkins, matchbooks, etc. - Programs - Reception costs (hall fee, etc.) - Videographer - Wedding Breakfast - Wedding Consultant/Coordinator's Fee - Wedding Dress, Veil and accessories
GROOM/GROOM'S FAMILY: - Accessories for men in wedding party, such as socks, gloves, etc. - Alcohol at the reception - Arrange for accommodations for out of town guests* (brides family can also arrange this, depending on whose hometown the wedding is taking place at) - Bride's wedding gift - Bride's wedding rings - Flowers (Brides bouquet, all boutonnieres) - Groomsmens gifts - His blood tests/medical checkup - Honeymoon - Limosine/Carriage costs - Marriage License - Officiant Fee - Rehearsal Dinner expenses - Wedding Attire
ATTENDANTS/USHERS: - Any necessary travel expenses - Shower gift - Wedding attire and accessories - Wedding gift for the newlyweds
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